Why is Changed? For the View of Personal Life

 


According with Personal Life

“If you do not create change, change will create you.”

Even if you resist or avoid it, it will enter your life just the same. When you initiate the change yourself, it’s pretty easy to adapt to it, since it’s a wanted one.

At first it is a bit difficult and annoying, but after a while you get used to the change so much that if it doesn’t come for a while, you end up moving the furniture at home in order to feel something changing.

Changes connected with moving from country to country impacted my personality. Thanks to them I became more flexible and open-minded. Now I understand cultural differences and appreciate diversity.

Each of the career shifts brought knowledge and new experiences. As a result, apart from the professional experience I learned how to resolve conflicts with difficult colleagues and how to work with unbearable bosses.

Career related changes brought self-confidence. All those changes led me to the realization of what I wanted to do with my life.

The biggest change in life occurred when I got married. The change brought love, peace, and comfort into my life. As a result, a new me was born—me being a wife, mother, and happy woman.

People usually avoid changes and prefer to stay in their comfort zones, but I am true believer that once you get the courage and take the first step to change, your life will become much better.

Below are just few benefits of change:


1. Personal growth

Every time anything changes, you evolve and learn new things. You are learning new knowledge about various aspects of your life. And from adjustments that did not lead you to where you wanted to be, you learn lessons.

2. Flexibility

Frequent changes allow you to easily adjust to new conditions, new situations, and new individuals. As a consequence, when something changes suddenly, you do not freak out.

3. Improvements

We all have stuff we would like to enhance in our lives-finance, jobs, partner, home, etc. Both of us know that nothing, by itself, will change. To make it happen, we need to do things differently. There will be no changes without reforms.

4. Life values

Forms from time to time make you re-evaluate your life from a new viewpoint and look at those things. It can also strengthen the beliefs in life, depending on what the shift is

5. The Snowball effect

We also give up because the daunting task of making a major and immediate improvement can not be done. That is when it becomes highly useful for minor adjustments. One change at a time, small modifications will eventually lead you to the big one you want.

6. Strength

Not all changes lead you to pleasant periods of life. Unfortunately we do not live in fairy tale and sad things happen, too. Overcoming the tough period will make you stronger.

7. Progress

Changes trigger progress. Things move forward and develop because of the them.

8. Opportunities

One never knows what will bring about each shift. There will be plenty of distinct opportunities waiting for you when you turn from your normal course. For satisfaction and fulfillment, improvements will bring new options.

 

9. New beginnings

Each change is a turning page. It is about closing one chapter and opening another one. Changes bring new beginnings and excitement to life.

10. Routine

Remember the Stranger than Fiction movie? Harold Crick, the main character, has been doing the same things for years at exactly the same time. He leads a completely dull, extremely predictable, and uninteresting life. That is how your life would be without changes.

So next time you get the temptation to avoid or resist the change, aim instead to initiate the ones that will lead you to where you want be.

 

References:

Monaco, A.R. (2016). 5 Reasons Change Is Good for You. [online] HuffPost. Available at: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/5-reason-change-is-good-f_b_9698674#:~:text=Here%20are%20five%20reasons%20why%20change%20is%20good [Accessed 12 Jan. 2021].

Tiny Buddha. (2012). 10 Powerful Benefits of Change & Why We Should Embrace It. [online] Available at: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/10-powerful-benefits-of-change-why-embrace-it/. [Accessed 13 Jan. 2021]..

Comments

  1. Kavindi Nadeera 2003908128 January 2021 at 11:12

    In radical change, the gap between two states of affairs is great. Radical change is also expensive and time consuming. Radical change is sometimes known as transformation change, quantum change or fundamental change.

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    1. Dinesh Indika Kumara28 January 2021 at 11:26

      Change may be quite to easily achieved. But Radical change is not to be achieved easily.

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  2. Janaka Ishara28 January 2021 at 23:38

    You are right..if we as individuals change it will not be difficult to change the whole community.

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  3. Ganga Pathiraja30 January 2021 at 18:38

    Yes. I agree with you regarding that, once you take the challenge to change as an individual, it may become a better decision rather than staying in the comfort zones, without being swapping.

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